Monday, November 29, 2010

Chapter 2...When is to soon to add as a Facebook friend!

I ended yesterdays post with describing why i'm so picky! And trust me I am the worlds pickiest person and i hate that i'm this way but when it comes down to it i really don't know how to stop!

So the other weekend I meet a boy, crazy I know with my high standards! I may have been a little intoxicated!  But anyway I did, so we chatted while he was working (bar tender) and flirty, flirty...he got my number. Result! This one was keen texted the next day to catch-up as he was going away for a week! Great I thought, so I met up with him for what started as coffee, worked its way into dinner! Had lots in common, easy to talk to, I was having fun...ended the date with a quick kiss and a plan to catch-up again! Result!

Over the next week the texting was done. Then that weekend a friend and I who were down where he worked decided to go pay him a visit...hey free drinks can you blame 2 us?!
But this is where I come to my question...with the use of facebook and other networking sites these days when is too soon to introduce your friends to a potential relationship?
Because these 2 also hit it off…and became friends, which is perfectly fine (it’s a good thing), I know she'd never go there.
But he added her on facebook, which I wasn't too keen on the idea, - I personally have one rule with Facebook and that’s not to stalk any potential flings- so my dilemma is he now talks to her on fb chat and ask her questions...she tells me everything he says but I feel, a little violated by it. Don’t get me wrong not by my friend but by him…he’s only met her twice. What I tell my friends shouldn't have anything to do with him!

It just makes things that little bit more awkward!!

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